A message for your new man.

Chong Wewah
1 min readJan 9, 2023

What a way to start off new years. I feel like I’m in a loop and the same thing is happening, literally. Never have I thought I’d write this as my header, but it’s bound to happen I guess.

  1. Be mindful of the things you say or do. Doubt me by saying I won’t repeat the same mistakes as you did, I promise you might make the same mistakes at some point, we’re all human.
  2. Remember every single detail especially those small ones bc that matters most to her and you’d wanna do everything to make her love you more.
  3. Be patience. Relationships are never easy, let alone with someone who has been with me, it’s not easy but your hard work and time will definitely be appreciated by her.
  4. Every important occasion matter be it monthsary or especially birthdays. I fucked up big time there and we both know you can do a better job.
  5. Hold her close regardless. You never want to lose someone who loves you and gives her all even if you don’t.
  6. She’s new to almost everything and she’d really appreciate you if you teach her the things you’re good at. Show her how good of a man you are than her ex.

There’s probably more but I can’t think anymore. Good luck in this adventure with someone you love. I wish you nothing but the best and all the happiness you deserve. Thank you for everything :)